2024 in Review
As the year winds down, I’m left marveling at how utterly bonkers it’s been. Work, in particular, has been a rollercoaster—one of those rickety ones where you’re not sure if you’re thrilled or just holding on for dear life. Raising alarms only to be told, “It’s my company, my risk, just do it,” has been the recurring theme. Collaboration? More like a solo act with an audience politely pretending to clap.
And don’t get me started on all the talk of diversity and inclusion—buzzwords that sound great but feel emptier than my inbox on a Friday afternoon. Honestly, 2024 has been the year of pretending. Pretending to care, pretending to collaborate, pretending it all makes sense. Spoiler: it doesn’t.
Here’s to hoping 2025 dials down the drama and brings a little more honesty—and maybe fewer meetings that could’ve been emails.
Being Human: Beyond Therapy Talk
We live in a time where words like “boundaries,” “triggers,” and “emotional labour” have become part of everyday conversations—a testament to breaking the stigma around mental health. But has this progress come with a cost? Too often, therapy language is wielded not to heal but to deflect, shifting blame or shutting down others. And in the rush to embrace vulnerability, we’ve developed a troubling habit of dismissing pain we don’t deem “real enough.”
The truth is, pain isn’t up for debate. Nor is there a one-size-fits-all formula for a meaningful life. With over 7 billion people on this planet, how could there be? What’s meaningful for one—working tirelessly to build a better future, chasing personal dreams, or embracing a quiet life—might not resonate with another. And that’s okay.
As Nietzsche said, “He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.” Our paths are as unique as our struggles, and the journey isn’t about judging others or competing over whose pain matters more. It’s about finding connection, giving grace, and, as Jim Carr wisely put it, learning to enjoy the passage of time.
Being Myself in a World Full of Performances
Leadership isn’t about performance; it’s about authenticity. In this post, I unpack the frustrations of navigating a startup culture where buzzwords like “safe spaces” clash with contradictory actions, and leaders demand the respect they haven’t earned. From boundary hypocrisy to culture confusion, it’s a candid look at the messy reality of modern leadership—and why being real is the only way forward.
Finding Balance
Back from a break and tackling friendship woes with a blend of patience and hobbies. Discovering peace in the quiet of home life and the support of true friends. Let's not water the weeds of negativity!
Wanderlust In My Thirties
Embracing my 30s with a suitcase and a map, I'm on a mission to explore, taste, and connect. From the bustling streets of Seoul to the serene pace of Italy, each journey expands my world and fills it with joy. Travel isn't just about places; it's about discovery and laughter.
Finding Freedom
This past year, I embarked on a profound journey of self-discovery, learning to be kinder to myself and embrace my authenticity. Along the way, I uncovered the importance of tuning out the noise, finding my own voice amidst the chaos, and realizing that self-acceptance is the truest form of freedom.
It Is Definitely You And Not Me
Ever been told, 'Can we talk?' and felt panic? Me too. It's a journey from seeing feedback as personal flaws to understanding it's often about the giver, not you. Learning to sift through criticism and find your voice is liberating.
A Personal Journey
Embrace the journey of self-discovery and contentment through personal story of growth, challenges, and the power of perseverance.
Finding Strength in Letting Go
In this post, I shared about recognizing when a friendship needs space, emphasizing the importance of self-care and setting boundaries for personal growth. It's a candid reflection on the tough choices we sometimes face in our relationships and the empowering realization that prioritizing our well-being is a form of self-love. This story is a testament to the resilience we find in letting go and the new beginnings that often follow.
Rediscovering Friendship
In this post, I share my journey through the ups and downs of friendship, highlighting the importance of communication, respect, and personal growth. Through personal stories, I reflect on the lessons learned and the joy of forming deep connections. Whether mending old bonds or nurturing new ones, I explore the transformative power of genuine friendships.
Navigating Spaces Between Me and We
Dive into a personal tale of navigating between self-worth and communal responsibility, reflecting on cultural shifts from Malaysia to Toronto. Engage with stories of growth, understanding, and the quest for balance.
The First Friend
I explore the transformative journey from familial bonds to the profound impact of an unexpected friendship. This narrative delves into my personal growth, the trials of university life, and the lessons learned from a friend who became a beacon in times of turmoil. It's a testament to the power of genuine connections. I invite you to share your own experiences of friendship and discovery.